There’s something to be said for being at the right place,
at the right time. Have you ever experienced one of those divine appointments?
Especially when it would seem that everything going on around you was out of
This was the case for Manoah’s wife. Her story begins in
Judges chapter 13. She is also known as Samson’s mother. Her name is never mentioned in the Bible, but
what a great woman of faith she was. She was remembered as one of the 23 truly
upright women in the Bible, yet her name is never mentioned. Some Jewish Rabbis
have referred to her name being Eshet, Zleponi or Zlelponith, which means “the
shadow falls upon me.” In one of the names
she has one “L” and in another name she has two that shows she saw the angel of
the Lord twice. When “El” is used in a name or in her case “L,” this is a
reference to the name of God. It is said “the third time’s a charm” because
when she took her husband to the place where the angel was, she saw him for a
third time. And any time we see the angel of the Lord appearing in the Old
Testament, this is considered the preincarnation of Jesus.
She and Manoah lived in the town of Zorah, just about 13 miles
west of Jerusalem. It is located in the Judean foothills. It is a town where
the Amorites had inhabited, but the Philistines were more prominent at this
time. Manoah was from the tribe of Dan and his wife was likely a Judahite. The
foothills of Judea is likely where both the tribes of Dan and Judah lived. She was
a righteous woman, a perfect woman, and considered Jewish royalty being from
the tribe of Judah. Unfortunately, she was barren and a barren woman was shamed
as it was thought she had some hidden sin.
It was during this time Israel did evil in the eyes of the
Lord, so He handed them over to the Philistines, who oppressed them for 40
years. (Judges 13:1). This seemed to be a bad habit that God’s children had. It
didn’t take them long to disobey Him after settling in this new land of milk
and honey. Just before Joshua died, God had him tell the people that if they
worshiped and served other gods, his anger would burn against them, and they would
quickly vanish from the good land he had given them. (Joshua 23:16) Today, God’s
promise rings true. This city is covered over by centuries of dirt. They call
these buried cities Tel’s in Israel. It is now called Tel T’sora and it is
being excavated. What they have found are tombs, caves, cisterns, and two
this in mind as we unfold this story.
This barren woman was who trusted God and obviously God
trusted her, was considered a social outcast by Jewish tradition. She was
humble, which is probably one of the reasons God chose her. Manoah on the other
hand may have been the opposite. He too may have been considered an outcast
since he had no children. This disappointment may have made him skeptical and
even a bit arrogant to compensate for his shame. He may not have believed he was worthy enough to be visited by an angel. She and Manoah were in different places in their faith. One might consider them unequally yoked.
When the Angel appeared to Manoah’s wife, he said to her “Even though you have been unable to have
children, you will soon become pregnant and give birth to a son. So be careful;
you must not drink wine or any other alcoholic drink, nor eat any forbidden
food. You will become pregnant and give birth to a son, and his hair must never
be cut. For he will be dedicated to God as a Nazirite from birth. He will begin
to rescue Israel from the Philistines.” (Judges 13:3-5) She immediately ran
to her husband and told him this and he did not believe her. So much so, he
prayed to God and asked if the man could visit him.
This righteous woman knew, without a doubt this visitation
was an angel of the Lord. She didn’t question him. She listened and took to
heart what he had said to her. This shows us the purity in her heart and the
trust she had for God. Most of us would either think we were crazy or losing
our minds if we were to be visited by an unearthly being. But not her. We see
throughout the Old Testament angels interacting with mankind so this would seem
to be a normal encounter. The last time we see this kind of encounter in the
New Testament is when Paul is blinded on the road to Damascus. This time it is
Jesus, himself. After the Holy Spirit
was sent to live in us, we no longer have these messengers to bring us good news.
That’s because we now HAVE the Good News living in us and like the Tel’s in
Israel, if we could clear out the debris of life, we would be able to hear Him
speak clearly and often.
Manoah’s prayer is answered, but not in the way he had
asked. Instead the angel of the Lord shows up, once again to his wife and she
then runs to get him. He runs back with her and even asks if he was the man
that spoke to his wife the first time. He doesn’t even realize he is an angel.
The angel responds, “I am.” Does this
response sound familiar? It’s what God called Himself to Moses at the burning
bush. Manoah asks the angel how he is to raise the child after he is born. The angel
replies by telling him to be sure his wife follows the instructions he gave
her. She’s not to eat grapes or raisins, drink wine or any other alcoholic drink,
or eat any forbidden food. (Judges 13:13). They were to raise their son as a
Nazirite. Nazarites were holy people. They were to abstain from wine and all
other grape products, such as vinegar and grapes. They were to refrain from
cutting their hair. They also were not to become ritually impure by contact
with corpses or graves even those of family members. (As described in Numbers
6:1-21). This is where we see what has been excavated today, tombs and winepresses.
The Amorites and Philistines worshiped pagan gods. Possibly even tried to conjure
up spirits of the dead. We know later that King Saul did this when he went to
the witch of Endor to talk to Samuel after his death. This area was probably a
thriving vineyard and the wine may have been a common drink, like water. God
knew when He went to Manoah’s wife, she would be obedient to keeping herself
pure as she carried this child who was to be one to deliver the people from the
oppression of the Philistines. The Nazarite way was like fasting, it was taking
a vow to symbolize separation and dedication to the Lord.
Manoah still didn’t believe this “man” was an angel until
after he asked his name. The angel replied “It is too wonderful for you to
understand.” (Judges 13:18). Whose name is wonderful? That’s right Jesus’ as
described in Isaiah 9:6. It wasn’t until Manoah built an alter on a rock and
sacrificed a young goat and grain offering and as the flames shot up toward the
sky, the angel of the Lord ascended in the fire, that he realized they had just
seen God. He said to his wife they will certainly die. But this woman of wisdom
responds back to him, “If the Lord were going to kill us, he wouldn’t have
accepted our burnt offering and grain offering. He wouldn’t have appeared to us
and told us this wonderful thing and done these miracles.” (Judges 13:23) Jesus did say, "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." (Matthew 6:8)
What can we learn from this amazing woman of God? She truly
is a woman who without an education or even status, had favor with God. We know of
another woman who had God’s favor and that was Mary. She had been chosen to
birth the ultimate Deliverer, Jesus. It’s possible in God’s big story, this
story was a foreshadow to the Hebrew people of how the Messiah would be
recognized. Both women were unlikely to have a child, one barren and one a
virgin. Both whose faith stood out among others as well as both being from the
line of David who was from the tribe of Judah. Another story closely related to
this is the birth of John the Baptist, who also was to be raised under the same
restrictions as a Nazirite, but he would be filled with the Holy Spirit before
his birth. When the angel Gabriel appeared to Zechariah in the temple, like
Manoah he had some doubt and because of this he couldn’t speak. Think about that,
he couldn’t even tell Elizabeth what happened and that she was going to have a
baby! But when Elizabeth discovered she was pregnant she recognized God’s
kindness and gave Him glory for taking away her disgrace. (Luke 1:25)
God desires to partner with us in His plan for mankind. He doesn’t
want us to live in shame or be buried in our mess. His desire is for us to thrive
and live as holy people. Only Jesus can make us holy, but our part is to live
lives that are pure, humble, and faith-filled like Manoah’s wife. God has given
every one of us, including men, to birth to something that will ultimately lead
others to the Living God. As we have seen throughout scripture God loves to use
the most unlikely people who have the most challenging situations to do great
things through. Manoah’s wife teaches us that when we live with an open and
pure heart, God WILL show up and not just once, but all the time. He wants us
to trust Him completely for everything. He wants to remove our shame so we can
live in His glory.
This chapter concludes with her giving birth to a son, just
as the angel of the Lord had promised. She named him Samson which means “like
the sun.” The scripture says the Lord blessed him and the Spirit of the Lord
began to stir him. What has the Holy
Spirit, who dwells in you, been stirring inside of you? We are living in a time
much that is much like in the days of Judges when people are doing whatever
they want and think is right, even if it’s evil in the eyes of the Lord. It’s
time for us to live with pure hearts so we can lead those around us to Jesus.
He is The Light in the darkness, the One who sets us free!
Scriptures for daily heart cleansing!
(NIV): Finally, brothers and sisters,
whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure,
whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or
praiseworthy—think about such things.
20:9 (NKJV): Who can say, “I have
made my heart clean, I am pure from my sin”?
5:25 (NKJV): Husbands, love
your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that
He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, That
he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle,
or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
Psalm 51:7-15 (MSG): Soak me in your laundry and I’ll come out
clean, scrub me and I’ll have a snow-white life. Tune me in to foot-tapping
songs, set these once-broken bones to dancing. Don’t look too close for blemishes,
give me a clean bill of health. God, make a fresh start in me, shape a Genesis
week from the chaos of my life. Don’t throw me out with the trash, or fail to
breathe holiness in me. Bring me back from gray exile, put a fresh wind in my
sails! Give me a job teaching rebels your ways so the lost can find their way
home. Commute my death sentence, God, my salvation God, and I’ll sing anthems
to your life-giving ways. Unbutton my lips, dear God; I’ll let loose with your
Psalm 85:7 (NKJV): Show us Your mercy, LORD, And grant us Your
Psalm 23:6 (NKJV): Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me All
the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the LORD Forever.
Deuteronomy 28:9 (NKJV): “The LORD will establish you as a holy people
to Himself, just as He has sworn to you, if you keep the commandments of the
LORD your God and walk in His ways.
John 18:9 (NIV): This happened so that the words he had spoken
would be fulfilled: “I have not lost one of those you gave me.”
Hebrews 10:22 (NLT): let us go right into the presence of God with
sincere hearts fully trusting him. For our guilty consciences have been
sprinkled with Christ’s blood to make us clean, and our bodies have been washed
with pure water.
*This information was compiled by the R.E.A.L. Women Bible study out of Hills Church in Laguna Hills, CA.