
Last Friday night, I had the pleasure of hosting "What Not to Wear" Women's event at our church. This message has been simmering in me since August of 2005. Four years in the making. I was so pleased at the outcome. It was based around the TLC program "What Not to Wear." The following entry is a compilation of my thoughts and what I shared. I warn you, this is a long entry.
The television program "What Not to Wear" is not as much about what not to wear as it is about what to wear. The format of the program is to take an unsuspecting candidate, show up unexpectedly, reveal their lack of fashion sense, lure them in by giving them a $5,000 debit card to buy a whole new wardrobe, toss out ALL of their old clothes, explain why their old clothes don't work, teach them how to shop for their body type and at the end of the hour, reveal them to the friends and family who nominated them. It starts out with the candidate feeling humiliated. Throughout the process they struggle with the change, but buy the time they get their haircut and makeup, they begin to see the "real" woman they were meant to be.
As a follower of Jesus, we have been given a "spiritual fashion guide." In Galatians 3:27, Paul tells us to put on Christ. In 2 Corinthians 3:18, it says that we are being transformed into Christ's likeness with ever increasing Glory. I asked myself, what does that Glory look like and why don't I see that Glory on me or other Believer's for that matter. As I began this journey studying what "spiritual fashion" looks like, I realized that the apostle Paul must have been a fashion savvy guy. He talks about clothing ourselves more than anyone else in scripture. Todays well known brand of clothing we see people wearing is Aeropostale, but I bet in Paul's day his designer line was Apostle.
The first step in attaining a new spiritual wardrobe is to get rid of the old and outdated clothing. On the TLC program, the hosts put a large garbage can in the middle of the room and they pull out each piece of clothing of the rack, discuss why it isn't appropriate and then in the trash it goes. Then the participant puts on three of their favorite outfits and stands in front of a 360 degree mirror. Most of the time they don't see anything wrong with what they are wearing, until the hosts explain why it doesn't work for them. Most of the time it hides who they really are, whether they are wearing clothes that are too big or too small. Then they are given rules to follow and sent out on their own to see if they can follow the rules. Most of the time, by the end of the first day, the participant is discouraged and is ready to give up. One of the participants said this. Her name is Courtney, "I'm hoping to find some happy medium between reflecting my personality and the clothes Stacey and Clinton are choosing for me. I don't want to project something that I'm not. I'm nervous that I'm going to go through all of this and not like what I've been transformed into." Isn't that the biggest issue for most of us? That if we make any changes in our lives that we will project something that we're not. I have news for you, when you are becoming more like Jesus, you are becoming exactly who you are supposed to be.
Colossians 3:1-11 says, "Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. 2Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 3For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. 4When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory. 5Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. 6Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. 7You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. 8But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. 9Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices 10and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. 11Here there is no Greek or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all."
Most of our "spiritual fashion" mistakes are because of our insecurities. We hide in our fears. One fear being that if we change people won't like us, or even respect us. In verse 3, the scripture says that our lives are now hidden with Christ in God. This was interesting to me as the word used here was "hidden." What did Adam and Eve do after they sinned in the Garden? They hid. What did they hide behind? Clothes made from fig leaves. No longer do we have to hide in our "old" nature. The nature of the flesh. But because of what Jesus did for us, he is now our covering and he gives us a "new" wardrobe. So our perception is incorrect.
Shortly after I had my son, I was faced with change. Not only was I now a new mom with a new figure, but I went from working full time in an office with other people to being alone at home with a baby that I couldn't even have a conversation with. I was lost in my new life. One day I heard the Holy Spirit tell me to pull everything out of my closet. Then He told me I needed to get rid of everything that wasn't me anymore. I can't tell you how difficult that was. I had clothing from my single days when I was thin. Clothes that I bought after I moved back to the south that weren't so "Californian". Maternity clothes that I bought and maternity clothes that were given to me. Clothes that were for work and clothes that were for hanging around the house in. I can't tell you how difficult it was to let go of each piece. Every shirt, pant, blouse and skirt had some memory or meaning attached. But those pieces of clothing were no longer who I was. I was now a mom, a woman with a figure because of my new body, and now my career was raising my child.
At this moment, I would ask you to take some time to write down the following words. I want to assume that you do not have any trouble with any of these "old" clothes. But if you are like me and have some out dated clothing hanging in your clothes closet, then it is likely you have some out dated clothing in your "heart's closet."
So often we read these words, but really don't know what they mean. We will take a closer look at each one. As we do write them down, look at it closely and ask yourself if this is reflecting the Glory of Jesus?
Let's begin with sexual immorality. Yes, thats a big one and the first one mentioned. If you are a Believer, you may not struggle with this one. But then again, maybe in your past you allowed yourself to wear this and to this day the enemy uses it against you to keep you from dressing in your "new" clothes.
Then there is impurity. The dictionary definition is a state or quality of being impure. The synonym is contamination. We contaminate and dilute our faith when we live impure lives.
Lust is an intense, uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite. This means we lack the fruit of the Spirit of self-control.
Evil desires. Romans 6:12 says, "Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its evil desires. Evil desires is sin and if we obey those desires then we are living in rebellion against God.
Greed is idolatry. A greedy person worships the things of this world. Do you have things that are exalted above Christ?
Anger is a strong feeling of displeasure and belligerence aroused by a wrong.
Rage is a fit of violent anger; a violent desire or passion.
Malice is a desire to inflict injury, harm, or suffering on another, either because of a hostile impulse or out of deep-seated meanness.
Slander is defamation; a malicious, false and defamatory statement of report.
Filthy language in the English Standard Version translation is obscene talk.
Last, but not least, lies. Bottom line, this is one of the Ten Commandments.
Do these characteristics resemble Jesus in any way? No, and yet so often we wear these old clothes because we find these clothes comfortable. Now that you have written these words down, say a quick prayer of forgiveness and tear the paper up and throw it in the trash.
Now let's go shopping.
The first rule of fashion is to know your body type. As a follower of Jesus, our body type isthat we all make up the Body of Christ. 1 Corinthians 12:27 says, "All of us together make up the Body of Christ." The main reason we need to wear the right "spiritual clothing" is because Ephesians 4:12 says it is "to prepare God's people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up." I see Christians tear each other down all of the time. Just knit picky things that keep us in conflict against one another all of the time.
Colossians 3:10-13 give us the basic and classic pieces we need to make up our "spiritual wardrobe." It says, "Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."
In basic fashion, each piece of clothing should complement each other. Spiritual fashion is the same. Each characteristic found in these two verses is complimentary of the other.
Tailoring is important for clothes to fit properly. Of course God is going to tailor the perfect clothing for the Body of Christ. God is the master designer. If you look back in Leviticus, you will see his attention to detail when giving the instructions to Moses for the priestly garments. As a Believer you are now a priest. (Revelation 1:6)
One of the participants on "What Not to Wear" did not ever wear a bra. Stacey and Clinton were telling her how unflattering it was and because of it, she looked heavy. Their suggestion of the proper undergarments would make her outerwear fit better as well as lifting in the right places. Proper fitting undergarments support and distribute weight evenly. Putting on the garment of praise for the the spirit of heaviness (Isaiah 61:3) works in much the same way. If we choose to live our lives in praise it lifts us to heights spiritually, that are untainable otherwise and it makes all the other pieces of clothing look better.
Every career woman needs a suit. In the business world these are called power suits. If our career is to be a Christian then we too have to have a power suit. That power suit is found in Ephesians 6. Verses 10 and 11 tell us "to be strong in the Lord and His mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so we can take our stand against the devil's schemes."
Most of us prefer elastic waist bands rather than solid or belted waist bands. We always want what is more comfortable, but a solid or belted waist band helps to keep our weight in check. Just as a belt keeps us physically in check, so does the belt of Truth (Ephesians 6:14). The truth of God's Word keeps us in line to His will for our lives.
Now let's take a quick look at compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Compassion is a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering. Sounds like Jesus to me.
Kindness is the state or quality of being kind; friendly feeling.
In 1 Peter 5:5, the scripture tells us "to clothe ourselves with humility because 'God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.'" If we truly are to become a reflection of Jesus, then humility should be a high priority.
Gentleness is kindly, not severe, rough or violent.
Last but not least, patience. Patience is an ability or willingness to suppress restlessness or annoyance when confronted with delay. Sounds like a girdle to me.
Whenever we dress in the physical sense, we always check ourselves in the mirror to make sure we are not untucked somewhere, unbuttoned, unzipped and the list goes on. The Bible is like a mirror that we can check ourselves against.
I have this hand mirror that has a normal side and a magnified side. Most days the normal side is fine, but there are days when I have to use the magnified side to see a little more closely. Reading God's Word is similar. There are days when reading you feel good about what you read. Then there are days when it seems the words written on the page magnify the things going on in your heart and you feel it go deep into the core of your being.
Finally, accessorizing is an important part of our spiritual wardrobe. Colossians 3:14-17 says, "And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. 15Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. 17And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him."
I love shopping for shoes. One of the suggestions for shoes is that shoes should be neutral enough to wear with more than one outfit. Shoes complete an outfit. I would say love is like a pair of shoes or sandals. We can't leave the house without shoes. Yes, I know we can't leave the house without wearing a top or blouse, skirt or pants, but shoes are the final touch. Remeber the signs that hung outside of restaurants? "No shirt, no shoes, no service?" If it were translated to spiritual fashion it would say, "no compassion, no love, no service."
A haircut and highlighting along with makeup that is a shimmering powder with highlights can make you look ten years younger. It brightens up the face. To some extent, forgiveness acts in the same way. People who live with unforgiveness in their hearts tend to look aged and there is a darkness in their look. Forgiveness brings a light to their life, that takes away the darkness.
I want to conclude with a few thoughts. The magazine racks are filled with magazines that tell us how to dress. In fact, many magazines have celebrities as models we should follow. There is only one source we should be reading and that is the Bible and only one "supermodel" we should look up to and that is Jesus.
I have this plaque in my bathroom that says, "One shoe can change a life.- Cinderella" If shoes are the clothing of love, then Jesus showed us great love by putting on and walking in our shoes. 1 John 3:16 says "We know what real love is because Jesus gave up his life for us." Jesus paid the price for our "old" wardrobe so we could receive the "new" wardrobe from God's "Spritual Boutique."
Remember how I mentioned earlier the women on "What Not to Wear" was given a $5,000 debit card and how difficult it was for them to spend all the money on themselves? We do that with our salvation. We recieve the gift of salvation, but we don't feel that we are worth all of the other gifts that go along with it. Those gifts being freedom from what has kept us bound, healing, and receiving the blessings that come along with a good attitude.
On the other hand, maybe you have not said yes to taking the "challenge" meaning you still have not accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Jesus has prepaid your debt and came to redeem your life from death and to give you eternal life. All you have to do is just say yes.
Remember the young lady, Courtney that I mentioned earlier? This is what she said about her complete makeover at the end of the program. "This is a radical transformation for me and it was a rough road, but knowing I look and feel different, people react different to me now. I do feel more confident. What I learned is, if PART of you wants to change, then do it!"
Don't be afraid to get rid of the "old" clothes in your heart's closet and don't be afraid to put on the "new" clothes that have been given to you. Allow the Holy Spirit to do a work in your life and allow the transformation to take place. You have to believe that you can be transformed into the likeness of Christ. The first step is to put on the clothes God has given you. I promise you this, we can be confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you, will be faithful to complete it. (Philippians 1:6)


